12/7 - Why Do I Collapse When I Laugh?

“My body's paralysed, but my mind still works. I can still hear everything being said”

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Living with narcolepsy - a rare condition that can cause you to fall asleep wherever you are, or whatever you’re doing - required Antonia Gentile to surrender her driving license, and step back from performing, cooking and even reading.

As she explains to Olly, narcolepsy and cataplexy are isolating and debilitating ‘hidden disabilities’. But they can be somewhat treated through awareness and good ‘sleep hygiene’.

If you’re struggling with sleep issues, Antonia recommends sleep improvement app Sleepio, and the charity Narcolepsy UK.

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Ollie modelling his home-dyed T-shirt.

Meanwhile, in the Zeitgeist, Ollie Peart, fresh from uncovering rude place names in his new podcast for the BBC, gets down and dirty in his recycling bin.

Can he rise to the challenge of living a waste-free life?

After experimenting with the advice on Trash is for Tossers, and registering for the Too Good To Go app, the culmination of his efforts is… steaming an old T-shirt in banana skins, broadbeans, and sweet potato scraps.

Greta Thunberg will be DEAD impressed…

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Elsewhere, in the Foxhole, Alix Fox helps out an anonymous listener who enjoys occasional anal sex with his wife - but is now worried he’s pressured her into it.

Is it fair to ask for anal sex when your partner isn’t finding it satisfying? If it’s not traumatising or upsetting her, and she’s consenting to it, should it be abandoned because it doesn’t give her physical pleasure?

It’s all about being ‘GGG’ (Dan Savage’s mantra: ‘good, giving, and game’), advises Alix, in this fascinating conversation.

The Foxhole is sponsored by Handy - a WiFi-enabled sex toy for men, designed and developed in Norway. For free express shipping, use our code ‘Foxhole' at TheHandy.com.

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Finally, our record of the month is the new one from Hampshire trio Drug Store Romeos - it’s called Secret Plan, and it’s from their forthcoming debut album, ‘The world within our bedrooms’":

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We’ll see you again on August 10 - in the meantime, do check out Olly and Producer Matt’s BRAND NEW, DAILY PODCAST The Retrospectors!

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12/6 - How To Be A Dad, Part 7

“Who cares about the back garden? Rewild it, and go and do some Lego”

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Bedtime stories, ‘social stalking’ and sugar-rationing are on the menu as Olly reunites with comedy podcasters Tom Price and Stuart Goldsmith to compare notes on fatherhood. 

Their sons are now five years old, and in this episode our Dads ruminate on ‘world-building’, how to make friends at pick-up time, and the dangers of doing a 'Hot Wheels Hunt'.

To catch up on the story so far, visit modernmann.co.uk/Dads.

And check out Tom and Stu’s podcasts, ‘My Mate Bought A Toaster’ and ‘The Comedian’s Comedian’, wherever you get your podcasts. 

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Meanwhile, in the Zeitgeist, Ollie Peart tries his hand at flying a plane - or, at least, a flight simulator, courtesy of Simulator Adventures in Media City, Salford.

Will he be able to keep a ‘fly by wire’ Airbus A320 airborne and steady, without getting distracted by the on-board horn and windscreen wipers? How much does a box-fresh aeroplane seat cost? And is his dream flight from Southampton to Bournemouth all it’s cracked up to be?

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Elsewhere, in the Foxhole, Alix Fox helps out George - a former sex-worker now experiencing difficulties disassociating from the performative parts of his sex life.

In a world in which webcam platforms and OnlyFans have introduced a ‘WFH’ generation to sex work, is this a problem that’s set to grow?

With help from former sex workers Kitty Stryker and Jason Domino, Alix suggests support groups like SWAI and Umbrella Lane; experiments with sensory changes and blindfolding in the bedroom; and considers the ‘social capital’ of George’s relationship.

 The Foxhole is sponsored by Handy - a WiFi-enabled sex toy for men, designed and developed in Norway. For free express shipping, use our code ‘Foxhole' at TheHandy.com.

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Finally, our record of the month comes from iconic indie popsters James - and the single ‘Beautiful Beaches’ from their new album ‘All The Colours Of You’, out now:

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We’ll see you again on July 10 - in the meantime, do check out our BRAND NEW, DAILY PODCAST The Retrospectors!

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12/5 - Please Don't Eat Me, Mr. Crocodile

“My will to live was so strong. I really was not ready to die.”

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When Rosie Mitchell went canoeing on a dam in Zimbabwe’s Matobo National Park, she thought she’d soak up the views, and soon be back on shore to toast the New Year.

Instead, she endured a terrifying close encounter with a 3m-long crocodile, who chomped down on her arm and ripped open her chest.

In this vivid and intense conversation, she explains to Olly how her determination to prevail - borne of her experiences ultra-running - helped her survive a seemingly impossible ordeal. 

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Meanwhile, in the Zeitgeist, Ollie Peart pores over a menu of post-pandemic dining trends, from nutritionist-inspired gnocchi to pizza a la Gordon Ramsay.

Are ‘dark kitchens’ and outdoor seating here to stay? And can you get a boozy buzz from non-alcoholic spirits?

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Elsewhere, in the Foxhole, Alix Fox celebrates the thirtieth anniversary of Ann Summers’ iconic Rampant Rabbit, and responds to a listener whose wet dreams seem to coincide with her menstrual cycle.

Is there a hormonal link to her mid-sleep orgasms? Or are nocturnal emissions just for the lads? 

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Finally, our record of the month is ‘Creature of Mine’ from singer-songwriter Billie Marten, who’s back on tour across the UK in September:

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Our NEXT EPISODE, on June 10, will be the latest instalment of our How To Be A Dad series. If you have a question of parenthood for Tom, Stu and Olly to answer in the show, send it in HERE.

See you then!

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12/4 - The Truth About Fur

‘I’d done a lot of damage, morally and practically.’

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As chief executive of the British Fur Trade Association, Mike Moser was the face of the UK’s fur industry.

He met with politicians in China and Russia, and advocated his ‘luxury product’ in the House of Lords and at an EFRA Select Committee.

Then, after a decade promoting the right to wear and sell fur, Mike changed his mind.

In this confessional chat with Olly, he considers how he used peer-reviewed science as a crutch, reflects on the implications of publicly switching sides in our polarised society, and reveals how a dog called Barney changed his life.

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Thanks to Filbert’s of Dorset for keeping Ollie sting-free.

Meanwhile, in the Zeitgeist, Ollie Peart tucks his top-knot under a full-body apiarist suit and heads to the hive for a deep dive on beekeeping.

Why are 40,000 hobbyists in Britain getting involved? Is it really possible to run a ‘natural’ hive? And what difference has the pandemic made to the taste of our honey?

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This is how you artificially inseminate a bee. So now you know.

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Elsewhere, in the Foxhole, Alix Fox - fresh from debating ‘vulva anxiety’ and elective labiaplasty on Radio 4 - assists a Mann-fan whose sex sessions go on for much, much longer than he wants.

What are his options for tackling delayed ejaculation? Could it be caused by post-traumatic dissociation? And is it taken seriously enough by health professionals?

Thanks to psychosexual therapist Silva Neves and Girl On The Net’s Luke Douglas for their input this month.

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Finally, our record of the month, comes from the fabulous Fryars - the delightfully curious groove ‘Orange Juice’, available to stream now:

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Next episode May 10 - see you then!

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12/3 - Mr & Mrs & Mrs

“It’s a bit political, figuring out who would sleep with who”

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It began as a threesome, arranged through dating app Feeld.

But soon, Maggie and Cody realised their connection to Janie was more than sexual… 

No longer just an adventurous couple in an open relationship, they had become a ‘thruple’ - whose relationship with Janie (their ‘third’) was as vital and equitable as their marriage to each other. 

In this interview with Olly, they explain the importance of communication in a three-way relationship, the dangers of jealousy and bigotry - and the complexities of sleeping arrangements and decision-making when you love two people at once. 

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It’s changed a lot since 1995, apparently.

Meanwhile, in the Zeitgeist, Ollie Peart dons his VR headset (again) to discover what real-world skills he can glean from his living room.

With the help of YouTubers Cas and Chary, and apps Survivorman, The Climb 2, Microsoft Flight Simulator and Marineverse Cup, he tries his hand at yacht-racing, skyscraper climbing and fire-lighting - only to find refuge in ‘DJ school’ Tribe XR.

Whilst learning to use aftershave as ignition fuel.

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Elsewhere, in the Foxhole, Alix Fox has details of how you can play with lightbulbs in your bedroom. In two unforgettable ways.

And, in our listener question of the month, she considers inventive lockdown dating ideas, from ‘collabaroke’ to tarot-reading, and reveals how a socially-distanced ‘picture pic-tour’ nabbed her a boyfriend.

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Finally, over in music corner, St Vincent make a welcome return to our playlist of dreams. 

Their new one, 'Pay Your Way In Pain’, is out now:

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